Comedy movie about family burying mother

I remember specific scenes but not the title. Watched this many years ago.
A Jewish family (not religious) of one sister and a couple of brothers come home because their mother (Anita, I think) is dying. First scene is sister picking up brother at airport. They call a Rabbi to their mother’s deathbed and he says (memorable line) “You look good!”
Then they scale the cemetery fence to scatter her ashes in the cemetery.
Another scene: they have a conversation about how they want to die. One brother says “I’m gonna go kicking and screaming.” They play cards.
Can anyone remember the name of the movie?