I remember specific scenes but not the title. Watched this many years ago.
A Jewish family (not religious) of one sister and a couple of brothers come home because their mother (Anita, I think) is dying. First scene is sister picking up brother at airport. They call a Rabbi to their mother’s deathbed and he says (memorable line) “You look good!”
Then they scale the cemetery fence to scatter her ashes in the cemetery.
Another scene: they have a conversation about how they want to die. One brother says “I’m gonna go kicking and screaming.” They play cards.
Can anyone remember the name of the movie?
“Reuniting the Rubins” (2010)
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1344337/
From IMDb:
“An up-tight lawyer, Lenny Rubin, (Timothy Spall), has to put his dream retirement on hold when his ailing mother (Honor Blackman) emotionally blackmails him into reuniting his estranged children for a Jewish holiday.”
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